I am a recently graduated college student with no prior knowledge of Chinese teaching English in China! This will be a great ride!
Friday, October 28, 2011
Here's what my schedule looks like, by the way
A letter I've been meaning to write
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
Trick or Treat
Movie in the Survey Class
Monday, October 24, 2011
Adam's Birthday
Posting pictures tomorrow.
Had tickets to a few parks, so I went with Ann, Will, Tamir, and a student named Viola to a park about a female soldier. It was pretty cool; I also got a fight taped after it. (I only had 5 tickets, and as I went outside to invite people I ran into 4 other people, and they were the ones who came with me).
Then we went to Lazy Cat Pizza, with really good pizza and we ate a bunch for Adam’s birthday!
While we were on our way there, we almost got hit by a bus. The driving in Kaifeng is bad, and I always think there will be an accident, but this one the bus was a couple of centimeters away after it stopped from our rickshaw, and there was nowhere to jump out. We all passively looked at the bus, and thought, “Well, possible we’ll get hit by that bus, not much we can do”. The driving in Kaifeng is really bad, like I said, and there are a lot of almost accidents I’ve been in- far too many for USA driving standards- but this one was pretty bad. When we’re in a rickshaw, there is really nothing keeping the bus from us.
So that was a bit scary. Though I’m partially telling you this story because often when you are in a rickshaw or taxi or car, you will have far too many close calls for you to keep caring about each individual one- scary as the bus was, I’ll have forgotten it, I’m sure, in a week.
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Current Event Time
If you’ve been keeping up with the news, you’re aware that there’s been a girl in China who was run over by two vans, and passed by many people on the street until someone, a street sweeper, called for help and rescued her. This event has sparked a lot of controversy, as many people talk about how China needs to re-embrace its moral code and how people need to help one another. (The girl died if you have not heard that new part of information).
Today a student came by, J, and helped explain it to me. J had some extra tickets she wanted to give me, so I accepted them. I can now get into a few parks for free sooner, and not just after Nov. 1rst, when I originally thought I would! (I was going to attempt a Monday update about a new park I visited once that arrived).
J said a year ago, there was a similar incident, except it involved an old woman. The old woman was hit by a car in Nanjing (according to her), and a man rushed over to help. The old woman ended up suing the man and took the case to one of the highest courts. The old woman won.
So now nobody wants to help people in China. She asked me if I would, and my response was naturally, “of course!” but then I took a moment to think. Would I help someone I saw in the street? And the answer in China is no, I would not. I don’t know enough Chinese to rush to anyone’s rescue, I don’t know how to flag help (I can't even call for it), and also, I am aware foreigners get blamed a lot for any accident they show up in, helpful or not. Does this make me a bad person?
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Last night the Beloit Professors left. I got to thank Betsy for helping me get the job in Kaifeng, mentioned I was leaning toward two years here (I say this with a grain of salt, but yeah, I can see myself here for another year), sang at karaoke. With a Peking Duck restaurant, it was really quite delicious!
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Awkward Question Time
Today I started class as I normally do, which is ask about their week. I’m teaching TV and listening, so I figure conversation isn’t going to ruin the entire syllabus. The students of my Thursday class are aware that I sleep late and enjoy waking up past 6am (why China, do you get up so early), so they asked what time I woke up. I told them the truth, which was 7:30. Then someone asked about what I did for breakfast, and I told them I had no breakfast.
They all gasped and told me that was unhealthy, and then they asked if I was ever hungry. And I said no, and if I don’t feel hungry I don’t go eat, and sometimes I miss lunch, too.
These questions may seem strange, but actually, I welcome them. They’re so different from the questions I normally get (every day at English Corner, it’s “Where are you from?” “When did you get to China?” “Why did you come here?” “How old are you?”). But this was not the most amusing question of the day.
Tonight, to celebrate the Chrysanthemum festival this week (Kaifeng’s special festival), there was a concert put on by the students. I went for a little while, but then I went to English Corner, where I was the only teacher there. So 40-some students gathered around me, some left afterwards, but I told them to ask me anything at all. We talked about Mac computers, about life in the states and buying a house, etc.
It gets better.
Adam had gone to the festival, and when he came back he brought with him 4 teachers; Morgan, from Alaska/Seattle/California (not sure where exactly), Tim, from Australia (not sure where), and Toby, from Germany (also not sure where).
Toby is strange, new and exciting to the students, so they asked him to introduce himself. He said “Mein Name ist Toby” (I think, that’s what it sounded like, anyway). The students laughed and asked him to say it again, but in German. I laughed and explained that he was speaking German, and long ago, English and German were the same language, so sometimes they sound the same (but it’s important to remember that the grammar is vastly, vastly different).
No matter how shocking they may seem.
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
After Conversation Class today:
Finished with my conversation class. They’re so cute and tiny. Not all of them, but they’re young, and energetic. One student, Young, didn’t show up today- well, if he doesn’t show up, then he gets no attendance points. Several students did not do their homework so I reminded the class that they are graded on the homework and it is part of their final grade.
That scared a few.
Oh well. We did an example telephone conversation at the beginning of class. I was going to originally cover two chapters, but then I had the students read the Request and Offer dialogue out loud. It covered important things, like “tips”, and I noticed many people rushed through the words and took unnatural pauses, and emphasized the wrong words. So I taught them, with chalk and use of the flat line, how to emphasize “oh my god” correctly (you don’t say that phrase flat, guys). We talked about tips, I asked how we could tell about a request or an offer through script (could you, would you, can you, if you don’t mind, I can, I would, etc.)
Then we talked about pauses, and I made them pause and raise their voice for a question. We talked about how to make the word “cat” a question (raising your voice), and we talked about how different inflections mean different things. I used the sentence “I didn’t steal the cookie this morning”, and how by stressing a different word, the sentence has a different meaning. It was a lot of fun. Especially the pauses, they really make someone sound native or not native, I think.
Update for the suicide stuffs
So the update on the suicide thing. I asked Jackie about what happened and what’s going on, if as a foreigner it’s being not talked about in front of me. Jackie was very honest and said that everyone knows, but nobody talks about it. Every year, he said, 5 to 6 students kill themselves, and the college never talks about it openly. The parents are mad, but nobody wants to mention it.
Tonight as I was rounding down English corner, a girl came to talk to me. She was in my class on Friday. My Friday afternoon class has been cancelled since they all have a meeting. She was upset that she wouldn’t be able to make it up, and she told me she really wanted to study Queen Victoria (who shows up next lesson), and if we made the class up on Saturday or Sunday. She’s leaving for the weekend, because she was on the first floor and the girl fell underneath her window, and she needs to get away. We talked a little bit about if she could talk to people, why she didn’t feel she could, that everyone feels guilty, and I hugged her three times. Then I told her I’d be online for her if she needed me, and we’re talking on qq messenger right now.
Adam also talked to her, but he didn’t feel comfortable hugging her- in the states, no problem, but in China, there’s all sorts of questions that rise in your head for culture. But I hugged her, as being a woman, it was less of a problem for me to hug a female student.
So for next week, I’ll cancel Tuesday’s class. For Friday, they have a meeting instead of class, so there is no class, and that’s not something I can change. I won’t try to make it up, either. I planned for an extra week in case things went wrong.
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Suicide in University Dorm
Monday, October 17, 2011
Teachers have come back!
October 16th
This weekend there was a Sports Festival and a Talent show all day today. Normally, I can sleep on weekends, but in Kaifeng everyone gets up around 7 and that’s when the incoming noise starts.
There isn’t that much sleeping in the morning.
The Talent Show and the Sports Festival make it worse.
So it’s best to drag yourself out to see these things. The sports festival was all day, but my movie class was involved.
The talent show started with dancing, roller skaters jumping over each other, more dancing and ended with singing.
Not a bad day.
October 15th blog
So. I never thought my major in music would really be useful for anything. I know that’s horrible, but I got it because I would have the classes for it, and I did like music a lot. Even if by the end of the major I felt that I wasn’t good, or that I really wouldn’t be able to do anything, it had been a fun trip.
Well, it turns out having a music major has suddenly enabled me to meet a community of people I wouldn’t otherwise.
Last night at English corner, a trumpeter introduced me to his teacher, who teaches singing. She sang a traditional Chinese song about picking grapes. She was so good, and it was delightful to meet her. She gave me her e-mail address, too. It’s strange, but fun that suddenly I have found people in music in China, not just the English majors that I thought I would meet.
Then today, I helped a girl pronounce Italian and English for her singing. She doesn’t go to this college, but she is old friends with someone who does. So I gave her an idea of how Italian sounded (it wasn’t anything far beyond what I had pronounced before), and English I was okay with (both pieces were Handel, for anyone who is interested). As I looked through the pieces I kept wanted to be singing again, to be learning the piece of music. I don’t really care about performing it, but I wanted to sound it out against a piano as I listened and counted.
That was more fun than I anticipated! Maybe I could get a job helping music majors pronounce English?
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Things I would have brought with me if I knew beforehand:
Conditioner. I think I can’t read it, but I haven’t seen any conditioner where I live. Just body soaps and shampoos. Realistically, I don’t need conditioner, but I’m so used to it!
Tampons. Guess what? Tampons came to China…and failed. There are no tampons where I live, and no one has heard or seen of one in Kaifeng. No one. I’m guessing they’re unavailable most places, too. (I brought some, but I’ll run out before the year is over. This is more to anyone in the future who wants to come). It's a fun reaction when someone asks if I have a lady product and I hand them a tampon, because they look at it and have two reactions: How does it work? Why is it so small?
Cheese is also worth considering, if only for having a small bit in very tense moments. I think it is worse when everyone else mentions wanting cheese around me, though. Parmesan cheese would have been pretty nice.
That's all I have for now.
What I did when Will and Ann returned
October 9th
Luckily Will and Ann returned the next day. They were tired. Due to it being National Week, everybody was on a train. Even though their train took them 7 hours to get back, several other people had to stand! This is not uncommon, apparently.
We had dinner. I guess this is pretty common.
My computer has been shared with Ann a bit- hers died, making mine the only Mac left. To be fair, her computer is about 8 years old. Mine is only 5.
…It has served me well, done well being dropped, so say what you will about it. It was a good choice of computer for me.
Yesterday and Saturday were spent creating scripts and e-mailing students. Tomorrow will be my Survey of English Speaking Countries Class, covering British History. I’m going to have Saxons, Vikings, and Normans. Then I’m going to have Kings and Queens line up.
And some videos. Anything that spices up the monotony of having a black board or power point. I know power points are overdone, but considering most people can read but not understand me, it doesn’t seem like a bad way to do things right now. I need them to understand what I’m saying, have pictures to recognize, more than I need freedom outside of power-point. Overdone, but I hope I have more visual aid (though one of my screens makes that fail each time), especially with the help of videos, and hands-on activities will, I hope, make things more lively.
Back!
Friday, October 7, 2011
What I did the week Will and Ann left me: Day 5/Day 6
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
What I did the week Will and Ann left me: Day 4
What I did the week Will and Ann left me: Day 3
Monday, October 3, 2011
What I did the week Will and Ann left me: Day 2
Sunday, October 2, 2011
What I did the week Will and Ann left me: Day 1
Today I went to a five-story grocery store. It was very exciting. On the fifth floor, there is a gym, so we did not go there. In the fourth floor, many “other” grocery store items, like fitness materials, cds, books, paper, toys, and cooking ware. On the third floor, there were juices, milk, alcohol, oil, and candy. The second floor was then all not-produce or bakery goods, and the first floor was raw goods, frozen goods, and a bakery.
We had gone to find a huge grocery store in case we should ever have a need for one bigger than Samo, (Samm-ow), but we discovered most of the things we wanted to buy were back in either local markets nearby or in the local grocery store.
It was a twenty minute bus-ride to the grocery store. Before we left the store we stopped to have some chicken sandwiches (They serve chicken nuggets with chicken sandwiches to make sure you have all your chicken needs). Even though I had frozen items (a fun, cheap dinner), it still was a good idea.
Because the bus ride back was an hour and 15 minutes. No joke. The traffic was that bad.
It was good to be home.